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Community: Password, Privacy and Account Security on the Internet

We all know how important it is to keep your password secret but I would like to remind you of a few basic recommendations to safeguard your privacy and your internet accounts.

  • Select a secure password that cannot be guessed by your close friends or even your relatives. This will ensure that it is not guessed by someone using a search engine to gather information about you. FertilityFriend.com automatically assigns a secure password when the account is created. Make sure that if you change it you keep it as secure. Make sure to not use the same password on all your accounts.

  • Do not use the same username/nickname on several internet sites, especially those which publicly publish your posts or those controlled by individuals that you do not know in real life. This will prevent people from tracking you from site to site to gather information about you that they can use to gain access to your accounts. FertilityFriend.com does not use any "hints" for lost passwords to minimize these type of issues.Read Full Post

Posted: Feb 16, 2008 10:35am Eastern Time by Frederic, Founder.

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Wendy

Charting: If I turn my chart upside down, I might see a pregnancy sign

Yes, I have analyzed just about every chart in every way possible when trying for a baby. Some lucky women have signs of implant on their charts. I am not one of those. I studied my charts for lots of time, searching for some sign. Each of my charts was different, with different ovulation dates and different luteal phase patterns. Sometimes I would have higher temps than others. There were never signs like a triphasic chart or implant dip or ovulation spotting. I just am one of the majority that just had to wait it out till the end of the cycle to see if menses came or not.

There are a few signs we might see, but none of these are definite, for sure pregnancy signs. Some lucky women get these signs and can be hopeful these may turn into pregnancy signs. Sometimes, they do occur in a non-pregnancy chart.

First, there's implant spotting. This sign is a fairly rare and ambiguous sign. It will be a brief one day bit of spotting that can be lighter or heavier around implant time (7-10 days past ovulation). Luteal phase spotting can happen for a variety of reasons. We do recommend you report all unexplained luteal phase spotting/bleeding to your healthcare provider as they can help you find why you're spotting/bleeding. In this link, you will find a FAQ on Luteal Phase spotting.

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Posted: Sep 26, 2007 1:25pm Eastern Time by Wendy, FertilityFriend.com Guide.

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Christie

Charting: OH, THE EMPOWERMENT!!!

After years of marriage and finally feeling “ready” to start a family back in late 1994, I did my research and found information on charting. At that time, I was rather limited on the internet and simply charted on paper by hand. I did use a basal thermometer as instructed and when we miscarried then conceived again the next cycle, I laid out all my paper charts and video taped them to document the moment. Oh, how proud I was to see how I had noted my temps and some fertile cervical mucus to help me out on that journey.

It was years later that I pulled out that tape. When we were ready to try to conceive again, the internet and information had come a long way. Wanting to have as much information as possible on file, I pulled out the video and copied the information so I could plug the data in and have some more statistical data. Oh, gosh, what an eye opener that was! I then realized how far charting had come in those 5 years…and what a pitiful charter I was. There were so many rules I really didn’t follow the first time and as the cycles progressed on my newest “trying to conceive” journey, I saw what a great difference that could make. My biggest flaw the first time was that I simply temped when I first woke up…whenever that might be. While this works OK for some women, it’s really best to temp at the same time each morning and I could see a difference in the temp fluctuations. The Fertility Friend Handbook was so helpful in laying out the importance of temping using a basal thermometer, at the same time each day, the moment you wake up, before doing anything and after 3 hours sleep. I’d give it a try and sure enough, my patterns looked a lot better.

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Posted: Jul 30, 2007 10:18pm Eastern Time by Christie, FertilityFriend.com Guide.

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Wendy

Charting: Back to the Basics: Temping

Back to the Basics--Temping

When taking a hiatus from charting or starting charting for the first time, it's helpful to review the basics of temperature taking.

Always use a BBT thermometer. This is specially designed for charting. It is more accurate for charting than a fever thermometer. As long as it's a BBT thermometer, it is your preference as to whether to use a digital or glass thermometer. I used digital just because it's easier for me to read a digital readout.

Do your very best to temp at the same time every morning. Even a 15 minute fluctuation in time can affect temps. Set an alarm if you must. For me, if I temped an hour later I could expect the temp to be more inaccurate. I learned this through months of charting. You can see patterns like this after charting a few cycles. If you work shifts you may find this FAQ helpful. If you have other reasons you can't temp at the same time every day, review this FAQ by clicking on this link. Regardless, always note the time you temped accurately on the chart.

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Posted: Jul 03, 2007 1:31pm Eastern Time by Wendy, FertilityFriend.com Guide.

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Christie

Charting: Sometimes You Really Do Just Have To Laugh!!!

Alrighty! We’re ready for a baby! Woohooo! So when you stop all the cost and effort to avoid (and you just knew somehow you’d be that teeny tiny percentage that ended up with an “oopsie” when preventing), why the heck is it taking so long?! OK, OK. I’ve read the stats. I know that it’s a “chance” thing. Only about 15-25% chance of conceiving in any given cycle. But why does it have to be so hard? And why me? And why is it taking longer than that even and when we conceive I then have a miscarriage? And why am I the only woman in my family and group of friends having this problem? I can’t count the amazing number of “accidents” I’ve heard of while we watch cycle after cycle pass or how everyone else got pregnant the first time they tried. Here we are wanting something soooo badly and not being able to do it. And then to hear the horrors on the news. This is not fair! And is it me…or does it seem that there are nice, big, round pregnant bellies everywhere especially the very day your period makes her grand entrance?! This has not been the easy task we thought it would when we first slyly smiled at one another and decided to start our family. Not at all.

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Posted: May 16, 2007 11:03am Eastern Time by Christie, FertilityFriend.com Guide.

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Frederic

Site News: New on Tickerfactory.com

New Debt, Savings and Fundraising Tickers
We have just launched debt reduction, savings and fundraising tickers. These tickers are designed to track situations such as: saving for a house or your next vacation, trying to reduce your debt, paying off your mortgage or loans, and fundraising.

Check them out: TickerFactory.com

New Rulers and Sliders
With the introduction of the new tickers we have added a few new designs of rulers and sliders.

Weight Ticker New Features
We have added new features to the weight ticker on tickerfactory.com- worth mentioning for those tracking their weight loss:


  • Weight Graph: you can now see your weight loss progress on a clean graph and on your own weight loss page.
  • Body Mass Index. The ticker is now capable of calculating and displaying your body mass index.
  • PIN protection to keep your data while still having the convenience of no extra registration.

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Posted: Apr 23, 2007 6:23am Eastern Time by Frederic, Founder.

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